Please understand that unlike during InDev, we are forced to communicate only once per week at most.
This is DND, not any other iteration of DF. Everything is slower, and more local. It is the way it is.
Usually when i quit i just dont log in anymore. And you split banks in a game you dont wanne play lol
If fact they do sieged us and defended their holding of the siegeback we done.So far i think we and them are the only guild that dropped siege yet.